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The rooting reflex

- Julie Matheney

The rooting reflex (RR) is a fascinating developmental milestone that begins even before birth and continues to evolve during infancy. RR is an automatic response in newborns characterized by turning their head toward a touch on their cheek or mouth. When you stroke or touch your baby's cheek or the corner of their mouth, they will instinctively turn their head in that direction, open their mouth, and make sucking motions. By turning towards a

touch, babies instinctively position themselves to find their food source and initiate feeding

The RR starts to develop in utero, typically around the 32nd week of pregnancy. During this time, baby's neurological and sensory systems are maturing rapidly. Once baby is born, the rooting reflex becomes more pronounced and functional. Immediately after birth, and often during the first few weeks of life, you can observe your baby's natural response to touch on their cheek or around their mouth. It’s a reflex, so this is also why they will try to root and latch to dad’s nose or even to grandma’s chest.

The RR is at its strongest during the newborn phase, the first 0-3 months. Babies rely heavily on this reflex to initiate feeding, whether at the breast or with a bottle. As baby's neurological system continues to mature, the rooting reflex gradually integrates with other feeding skills. By around 4 to 6 months of age, babies start to gain more head control and may rely less on the rooting reflex for feeding.

You can actively support baby's RR by:

- Positioning baby close during feeding. Their chin and cheeks should be physical touching your breast and your fingers can touch their cheeks during bottle feeding

- Let baby lay on both of their sides during tummy time, not just on their belly. As the floor triggers the reflex, it helps not only integrate it, but also will eventually help with rolling over and finding toys

- Being responsive to your baby's cues and feeding needs, especially during the early weeks and months.

Have you noticed the rooting reflex in your baby? Share your experiences and insights in the comments below! 💬🍼 #RootingReflex #NewbornDevelopment #ParentingJourney

Iron for breastfed babies

- Julie Matheney

At birth, babies have a natural reserve of iron accumulated during the last trimester of pregnancy. However, these iron reserves begin to deplete around 4-6 months of age due to baby's rapid growth and increasing blood volume. While breast milk contains relatively low levels of iron, it is highly bioavailable, meaning it is absorbed more efficiently by the infant's body compared to the iron in formula. But breast milk alone does not provide sufficient iron to meet the growing baby’s needs. This depletion necessitates the introduction of additional iron sources once baby starts solid foods at 6 months.

Introducing iron-rich foods, such as pureed meats, iron-fortified cereals, beans, and leafy green vegetables, helps prevent iron deficiency anemia, which can lead to developmental delays and impaired cognitive function. Starting iron-rich foods at 6 months ensures that babies receive adequate iron to support their developmental needs, complementing the high bioavailability of iron from continued breastfeeding. This approach helps maintain optimal iron levels during a critical period of growth and development.


Iron is crucial for:

📏Growth and Development: Iron is vital for the production of hemoglobin, the protein in red blood cells that carries oxygen throughout the body. Adequate oxygenation is essential for the rapid growth and development of infants, particularly for brain development

🤢Immune Function: Iron plays a significant role in the development and function of the immune system. Adequate iron levels help protect babies from infections and support overall immune health

🧠Cognitive Development: Iron is crucial for neurological development. It is involved in myelination, the process of forming the protective sheath around nerves, which is essential for efficient nerve transmission and brain function

Iron deficiency anemia can lead to:

- Developmental Delays: Iron deficiency can impair cognitive and motor development, leading to long-term developmental issues

- Behavioral Problems: Low iron levels can affect a baby's temperament and behavior, causing irritability and reduced attention span

- Weakened Immune System: Iron deficiency can compromise the immune system, making infants more susceptible to infections

Thus, maintaining adequate iron levels through a combination of continued breastfeeding and the introduction of iron-rich complementary foods is essential for ensuring healthy growth and development in infants.

What you weren’t told about breastfeeding a preemie

- Julie Matheney
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Babies born under 38 weeks gestation are considered premature, with those born between 34-36.6 weeks gestation, known as late preterm infants. While those born in the 37th week are considered term, lactation consultants call them the Great Pretenders, because they can look like full term babies, but still act like late preterm babies. All of these babies exhibit distinct feeding habits compared to full-term infants (those born at 38+ weeks). Here are the primary differences:

Feeding Efficiency:

   -Late Preterm Infants: Often have less developed oral motor skills, which can lead to less efficient suck-swallow-breathe coordination. This can make feeding slower and more labor-intensive for both the infant and the caregiver.

   - Full-Term Infants: Typically have more mature feeding skills, allowing them to feed more effectively and efficiently from the breast or bottle.

Energy Levels and Fatigue:

   - Late Preterm Infants: These babies tend to tire more quickly during feeding due to lower energy reserves. This can result in shorter, more frequent feedings and a need for longer feeding sessions.

   -Full-Term Infants: Generally have higher energy levels and stamina, enabling them to complete feedings more quickly and efficiently.

Latching and Milk Transfer:

   -Late Preterm Infants: May struggle with latching onto the breast properly, leading to inefficient milk transfer. This can necessitate additional support, such as the use of nipple shields or supplementary feeding devices.

   -Full-Term Infants: Usually latch more easily and effectively, facilitating better milk transfer during breastfeeding.

Feeding Frequency:

   -Late Preterm Infants: Often require more frequent feedings due to their limited ability to consume large volumes of milk in a single feeding session.

   -Full-Term Infants: Can typically consume larger amounts of milk per feeding, allowing for longer intervals between feedings.

Supplementation Needs:

   -Late Preterm Infants: More likely to need supplementation with expressed breast milk or formula to ensure they meet their nutritional needs and support adequate growth and weight gain.

   -Full-Term Infants: Generally able to meet their nutritional requirements solely through breastfeeding or standard bottle feeding.

Risk of Jaundice:

   -Late Preterm Infants: Higher risk of developing jaundice, which can affect feeding patterns and overall health. Effective and frequent feeding is critical in managing this condition.

   -Full-Term Infants: While jaundice can occur in full-term infants, it is typically less severe and easier to manage through regular feedings.

Growth Monitoring:

   -Late Preterm Infants: Require closer monitoring of their growth and development to ensure they are meeting milestones and gaining weight appropriately.

   -Full-Term Infants: While growth and development are monitored, they generally follow a more predictable growth pattern.

Understanding these differences is essential for caregivers and healthcare providers to offer the appropriate support and interventions to ensure that both late preterm and full-term infants thrive.

 

This means your expectation is you may have to triple feed or do lots of pumping until baby becomes efficient, which is usually 2-3 weeks PAST their due date. They need extra time to figure out how to efficiently feed. Many parents who had babies born at 37 weeks were not told their baby may struggle to breastfeed for the next 4-6 weeks, so they give up on breastfeeding just a few weeks in  don’t give up!!! Your baby just needs time to figure it all out  

#preemie #preemiestrong #preemiepower #preemiemom #preemieawareness #preemielife

Trauma informed postpartum care

- Julie Matheney

Giving birth is a profound experience that can impact a person both physically and emotionally. For individuals who have experienced trauma either before or during childbirth, receiving care from trauma-informed healthcare professionals (HCPs) is crucial for well-being and recovery.

Trauma-informed care is an approach that recognizes the widespread impact of trauma and emphasizes safety, trustworthiness, choice, collaboration, and empowerment in healthcare settings. It acknowledges the potential triggers and sensitivities that individuals with trauma histories may have

Why It's Important After Birth:

❤️Respecting Individual Experiences: It that every person's experience is unique and that past traumas can affect present health. It ensures that HCPs approach each patient with empathy, sensitivity, and understanding

  

❤️Reducing Triggers and Stress: Childbirth itself can be a triggering event for individuals with trauma histories. HCPs who are trauma-informed take proactive steps to create environments that minimize triggers and stressors, promoting a sense of safety and comfort

❤️Enhancing Communication: Trauma-informed care emphasizes clear and respectful communication. HCPs are trained to ask open-ended questions, listen actively, and validate patient experiences, fostering a collaborative and trusting relationship

❤️Supporting Emotional Health: Postpartum emotions can be intense and complex. Trauma-informed professionals are equipped to recognize signs of distress or post-traumatic stress and provide appropriate support and resources

❤️Promoting Recovery and Healing: By integrating trauma-informed practices, HCPs can contribute to the healing process and help individuals build resilience following childbirth-related trauma

Every person deserves to feel safe, supported, and respected in their healthcare journey, especially after childbirth

**How to Access Trauma-Informed Care:**

- **Ask Questions:** When seeking healthcare services after childbirth, inquire about the provider's approach to trauma and whether they have specific training or experience in trauma-informed care.

  

- **Advocate for Your Needs:** Share your trauma history and specific triggers with your healthcare provider. Open communication allows for tailored care that respects your boundaries and promotes your well-being.

- **Seek Support:** If you're unsure where to find trauma-informed care, reach out to local support groups, therapists specializing in trauma, or community organizations that can provide recommendations.

**Remember, You Deserve Compassionate Care:**

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This post aims to highlight the importance of trauma-informed care in the context of postpartum health and emphasizes the value of working with understanding and supportive healthcare professionals after childbirth.

Breastfeeding and Weight Loss

- Julie Matheney

You were probably told breastfeeding would be this incredible biological postpartum weight loss plan. While that may be true for about 1/3 of people, most of us hold on to our weight regardless of how much boob juice we make. When you breastfeed, fat cells stored in your body during pregnancy and calories from your diet fuel milk production. Your body burns about 20 calories for each ounce of milk you make. Which is why you need an extra 300-500 calories a day. After an immediate postpartum weight loss of about 15#, it tends to be gradual — about 1–2 pounds a month for the first six months after childbirth and more slowly after that point. It often takes 6-9 months to lose pregnancy weight.

Why are you not losing the baby weight?

🧁 I don’t know about you, but I was hungrier breastfeeding than pregnant. You’re still eating for two only your second party is bigger now than when they were in your belly. Breastfeeding cravings are real. 

🧁 Lactation cookies? Let’s be honest, a cookie is still a cookie whether or not it helps with your supply. Eating lots of bars, cookies, power drinks and teas with sugar or honey are not going to help with weight. 

😵‍💫Stress: Research has also found that elevated cortisol levels (the stress hormone) have been associated with weight retention in the first 12 months postpartum

😴 Lack of sleep:  Research shows when we don’t get consistent sleep, our hunger hormone (ghrelin) gets triggered and our satiety hormone (leptin) dips, increasing appetite. Scientists at the University of California also found that sleep-deprived people tend to reach for higher-calories foods compared to those who are well-rested.

🩸Hormones: Prolactin, your milk making hormone, is also sometimes called the “fat-storing hormone”. High levels of prolactin can result in weight gain. And they are at their highest while breastfeeding. While more research on prolactin is needed, we hypothesize that our bodies undergo metabolic adaptations to hold onto excess fat as “insurance” for baby. Meaning, if you were to find yourself in a famine, you body has what it needs for baby.

🔑Remember: there is waaaay too much pressure to “bounce back” after having a baby. Your body is epic and lovely and just pushed a tiny human being out. Your body is going through so many changes and there are physiological things at play that can be beyond your control. Trust your body. Trust your baby. Love your body. 

What can I eat to make breast milk?

- Julie Matheney

Prolactin is hormone responsible for making breast milk. We know that when you’re breastfeeding, you need about 300-500 extra calories to supoort making nutrition for your baby. You’re still eating for two!! There are foods with phytoestrogens which help boost and support your natural prolactin levels.

There are several main classes of phytoestrogens. Lignans are part of plant cell walls and found in fiber-rich foods like berries, seeds (flaxseeds), grains, nuts, and fruits. Two other phytoestrogen classes are isoflavones and coumestans. Isoflavones are present in berries, grains, and nuts, but are most abundant in soybeans and other legumes. Coumestans are found in legumes like split peas, lima and pinto beans. Eating these will naturally increase prolactin which in turn helps support making milk
🌾We all know oats are the go-to for increasing supply. They are rich in plant estrogens and beta-glucan. But other grains like brown rice, barley, and quinoa work as well!
🧄Garlic! It will definitely flavor you milk, but research shows babies love the flavor and often suck more in response and it’s been shown to increase milk supply
🌱Fennel: Raw or cooked, fennel seeds can be added to a recipe, or drunk as a tea. There are also many lactation specific supplements that include fennel in pill form for a more concentrated dose
🥬Dark Leafy greens like spinach, kale, collard greens, and broccoli. And yes, you can eat broccoli while breastfeeding. 🥦
🌻Seeds: Sesame seeds, flax seeds, and chia seeds are all super boosters of making milk and can be added to baked goods and smoothies very easily
🍓Berries: Get a phytoestrogen boost with fruits like strawberries, cranberries, and raspberries.
🌰Nuts: Almonds are high in linoleic acid and known to be the most lactogenic nut. Packed with healthy fats and antioxidants, Vitamin E and omega-3, walnuts, cashews, and pistachios are all good choices. Snack on raw or roasted nuts, add them to cookies, smoothies, and salads.
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Breastfeeding Grief

- Julie Matheney

Many times things don’t go as expected during labor and delivery and/or with breastfeeding. The loss of our expectation of what we thought would happen become the root of our grief and depression. It’s so easy to blame ourselves when things go wrong, even though our society is not set up to support postpartum families in any capacity, especially related to breastfeeding. This happens more than you think and I see it every day in my practice helping families in their breastfeeding journeys.

Grief is a spectrum that is different for everyone. You may not have even realized that the emotions you’re experiencing related to your breastfeeding journey not going as expected are in fact grief. Rage, anger, sadness, depression, anxiety, shame and guilt could all actually be stemmed from grief.

Different people need different ways to approach and process their grief. How do you start the grieving process? Recognition that you’re grieving the loss of an expectation is the first step. Realizing that you’re not the only one who is grieving their birth or breastfeeding story at this very moment can also normalize what you’re feeling. Give yourself permission and time to grieve. You may have a healthy, thriving baby. You may have really supportive family. You may have every resource available to you. That doesn’t negate your experience or the emotions you’re feeling.

Other steps to working through your postpartum and breastfeeding grief:
⭐️Avoid self blame
⭐️Surround yourself with people who will support you or who have gone through a similar experience
⭐️Talk to someone safe about what you’re experiencing. This may need to be a trained therapist
⭐️Find an IBCLC to help you reach your feeding goals. Schedule your consultation with me at www.lalactation.com
⭐️Hire a postpartum doula to help with baby and self care
⭐️Honor your story and the journey you’re on
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The Second Night

- Julie Matheney

Second Night Syndrome : What absolutely every parent should be warned about in pregnancy.

Second night syndrome. I hate the word syndrome. It implies something is wrong. For nine months your baby has been in your belly. Heard your voice. Felt your body move. Listened to the rush of your blood flow past and heard the gurgle of food digesting. Their existence controlled by the cycles of your body. Then the intensity of labor and delivery propels them into a new world that sounds, smells, and moves differently. The sheer exertion of being born often makes babies as tired as their mothers. It is typical for babies to have a deep recovery sleep about 2 hours after birth (after their 1st breastfeed).

On the second night, however, most babies will want to frequently nurse. This helps with two transitions: meconium to soft, seedy yellow poops and colostrum to mature milk. This cluster feeding catches many parents by surprise and leaves them wondering if baby is starving. Unless baby is not latched well or efficiently feeding, this is normal and the cluster feeding will help transition your milk.

Many babies, though, don’t want to be put down during this process. Each time you put them on the breast they nurses for a little bit, go back to sleep and then cry when placed in the crib. A lot of moms are convinced it is because their milk isn’t “in” yet, and baby is starving. It isn’t that, baby’s awareness that the most comforting place is at the breast. It’s the closest to “home”. This is pretty universal among babies. When baby drifts off to sleep at the breast after a good feed, break the suction and take your nipple gently out of their mouth.

This is also protective of SIDS. You’re exhausted from labor and delivery and just want to sleep. But night time is when newborns are most vulnerable to respiratory complications and SIDS. By waking you frequently at night, you are waking frequently to check on the well being of your baby when they’re at their greatest risk of infant death. Waking regularly at night for the first few months to feed also helps babies from getting into too deep of a sleep state which can cause them to stop breathing. Instead of seeing the loss of sleep as a negative for you, consider the positive reason it has for baby.

Don’t try to burp baby, just snuggle baby until they fall into a deep sleep where they won’t be disturbed by being moved. Babies go into a light sleep state (REM) first, and then cycle in and out of REM and deep sleep about every ½ hour or so. If they start to root and act as though they want to go back to breast, that’s fine… this is their way of comforting. During deep sleep, baby’s breathing is very quiet and regular, and there is no movement beneath the eyelids. That is the time to put them down.

Second night syndrome. As described above, when all is going well it is normal for baby’s to cluster feed on the second night to help milk transition and poop out meconium. Some babies do not efficiently feed, though, and intervention may be necessary.

🩺Medical interventions and pain relief during labor and delivery, maternal health complications like PCOS, uncontrolled diabetes or hypothyroidism, or large blood loss during delivery may delay the transition of your milk.

🧸If your baby not latched well, has a tongue tie, or hasn’t figured out how to coordinate sucking to actually transfer milk from the breast, intervention may also be necessary.

🖐🏽The first line of defense is hand expressing your milk frequently. Hands are better at expressing colostrum than a pump, although a pump is a great way to stimulate milk to be made.

🥄Dripping your milk into baby’s mouth from a spoon or small syringe can help jump start the feeding process.

❓If you have any doubt about either your milk supply or your baby’s ability to breastfeed well, reach out to a qualified IBCLC ASAP to get to the root issue and get you back on track.

♥️There is no shame in supplementing your baby if needed during this time of learning. Remember, you can always use your milk first by using your hands or a pump if baby hasn’t figured it out yet.

Whats that smell?

- Julie Matheney

SWEATY AND STICKY

Do you feel hot, sticky, sweaty, sopping wet and a little stinky? Welcome to motherhood. It does get better. There is an actual biological point to leaking from every pore and that weird stench that accompanies it.

Not all of our senses are developed at birth. It would overwhelm our littles too much to go from a dark, wet environment to such a bright, crazy world to actually have every sense developed like ours. Their vision isn’t great and they have no depth perception. But they have a fully developed sense of smell. They have been getting to know your odors since their womb days. Your amniotic fluid was constantly changing in its scent based on what you ate and drank and your unique hormone combination. All that leaking you’re doing postpartum has a similar scent which serves to orient your baby back to you. Your body odors are familiar to your baby and it makes them feel safe and secure that they are with their birth person and not someone else. Your leaking smells also stimulate their hunger, which is why baby may constantly root when on your body even if they aren’t hungry. Did you know that the breast secretes an oil from those little bumps on your areolas that smells just like amniotic fluid? This helps baby locate dinner when they are ready to eat. Showering is normal, but avoiding the use of scented products can actually be very helpful and calming for your baby. While you may find your body odor unbecoming, know that to your baby it makes you feel like home.

Best Parenting Advice

- Julie Matheney

Put them in water or take them outside. This is the best parenting advice I’ve ever been given. When breastfeeding has been established (baby is making good wet and dirty diapers, generally pain free latch, and gaining weight), there will be times when baby will be super fussy and refuse the boob. Many misinterpret this as having low milk supply or something wrong with the breast. Don’t be so quick to blame yourself or to supplement with a bottle. I guarantee you there will be times when you have no idea what to do to stop your baby from crying. The boob won’t work. Changing the diaper won’t work. Burping and rocking and shushing won’t work. I guarantee you there will be times when you will cry right along with your baby and feel helpless to soothe them (or yourself).

When the breast doesn’t work: put them in water or take them outside. It works. When your baby is falling to pieces for no apparent reason and the usual tricks don’t work, go outside or get in water. It works on adults, too!!